10 Big Mistakes Every Woman Commits In Relationship
wdorfha§ .eyeKq ,uhs lrk jerÈ 10la
wdor
iïnkaOhl§ msßñ flfkla .eyeKq flfkla ;=, olsk foaj,a fndfyduhla ;sfhkjd’
f.dvla fofkla ,iaik n,,d hd¿ fjkjd lshk foa we;a;la jqk;a hd¿ jqkdg
miafia tal È.gu mj;ajd f.k hkjdo lshk tl ;SrKh lrkak msßñ wh ks;ru n,k
foaj,a lsysmhla ;shkjd’ ta w;r ±kqu, yelshdjka,
;uka .ek .eyeKq flkd olajk wdl,amh iy ;ukaf.a isrer yßhg ;shd .kak fudk
;rï ie,ls,su;a fjkjo lshk foaj,a m%Odkhs’ fu;k§ lshkafka fïla wma odk
m%udKhj;a, .dk l%Sï, fndk ima,sukaÜ .dkj;a fkfjhs’ tÈfkod Ôú;fha§ ks;ru msßisÿjg,
olskak wdi ysf;k úÈyg bkak tl Bg jvd jeo.;a’ ta jf.au .eyeKq <uhs
w;ska isÿ fjk mqxÑ jerÈ j,g jqk;a msßñ flfkla yßu ixfõ§ ksid tajdhska
iïnkaOfha f,dl= fjkila we;s fjkak bv ;sfhkjd’
l,ska
lshmq ldrKd ksjerÈj mj;ajd f.k hk flfkla kï fï jk úg Th;a fndfydu i;=gq
odhl iïnkaOhla ;sfhk flfkla fjkak we;s’ b;ska ta jf.a whg .eg¿jla ke;sj
iïnkaOh fyd¢ka ;shd .kak;a,
;uka flfrys msßñ flkdf.a ie,ls,a, jeä lr .kak;a fya;= fjk ldrKd ;uhs fï
lshkak hkafka’ fï lshk jerÈ 10 fkdlr bkak ne¨fjd;a Tfí iïnkaOh fndfyda
.=Kd;aul tlla fjhs lsh,d iy;sl fjkak mq¿jka’1. Wkkaÿjla ke;s lu’
msßñ flfkla tlal iïnkaOhla ;sfhk muKska ;ukaf.a wkd.;h iïmq¾Kfhka thd msg mgjk whg ljqre;a leu;s kE’ .eyeKq flfkla jqk;a ;ukaf.a ±kqu j¾Okh lr .kak, ;ukaf.a /lshdj w;ska biairyg hkak, ;ukaf.a Ôú;h f.dv k.d .kak mq¿jka flfkla fjkak wjYHhs’ ´kEu msßñ flfkla leu;shs ;ukaf.ka yeu foau ,nd .kak .eyeKq flfkl=g jvd ;ukag Yla;shla fjkak mq¿jka flfklag’ fï ksid ta .ek álla ys;=fjd;a fyd|hs’
2. wdorh wdhqOhla lr .kak tl’
;ukaf.a flkdf.a hï je/oaolg o~qjï fokak wdorh mdúÉÑ lrk tl f,dl= je/oaola’ fïl ,sx.sl lghq;= j,g;a fmdÿhs’ ;ukag thdf.a ;sfhk wdorh yd ;ukaf.a isrerg thdf.a ;shk wdYdj ;ukaf.a Wjukd tmd lï j,g mdúÉÑ lfrd;a blaukgu ta iïnkaOh wyjrla fjkjd’ fï ksid ;ukag ´k fohla ,nd .kak W;aidy lroa§ wdhqOhla úÈyg fjkqjg ;ukag ,enqK foalg ;ukaf.ka ,efnk ;E.a.la úÈyg ta foaj,a mdúÉÑ lrkak n,kak’
3. Wjukdjg jvd jerÈ fydhk tl’
m%udKhg jvd yeu fohlu jerÈ fydhkak .shdu tal ´kEu msßñ flfkl=g tmd fjkjd’ wks;a foa ;uhs yeu je/oaogu nkskak hk tl’ .eyeKq <uhs n,dfmdfrd;a;= fjkjd fufyu jqkdu thd ksjerÈ foa lrkak fm,fUhs lsh,d, ta;a we;a;gu isoaO fjkafka thd,dg .eyeKq flkdj tmd fjk tlhs’ fï ksid fudk ;rï jerÈ ;snqk;a ta fiaru tl mdr yß .iaikak .syska ;ukag ;sfhk ne£u ke;s lr fkd.kakg m%fõiï fjkak’
4. thdj fjkia lrkak W;aidy .kak tl’
iïnkaOhla mgka .;a; .uka ;uka fndia fj,d ;ukag ´k úÈyg msßñ flkdj fjkia lr .kak yok wh ;uhs f,dl=u m%Yak j,g uqyqK fokafka’ we;a;gu Tn wlue;s ,laIK f.dvla ;sfhk flfkla tlal hd¿ fj,d thdj fjkia lrkak yokjdg jvd ;uka leu;s úÈfya flfkla fydhd .kak f,aishs’ yeu fj,dfõu msßñ flkdg thd leu;s úÈyg lghq;= lrkak fokak n,kak, yeu fohlau fjkia lr,d ;ukag ´k úÈyg yod .kak W;aidy lrk whg lsisu msßñfhla leu;s kE’
5. .kq iy fokq kS;sh wu;l lrk tl’
yeu fj,dfõu Tn fohla n,dfmdfrd;a;= fjkjd kï ta jf.au fohla wks;a me;a;g lrkak j. n,d .kak’ ;ukag fyd|g i,lkak kï ;ukq;a thdg fyd¢ka i,lkak wjYHhs’ ;ukaf.ka bgq fjkak ;sfhk foaj,a u. yer,d tl tl foaj,a n,dfmdfrd;a;= fjkak .sfhd;a thd lrk yeu fohlau Wjukdjg tmdjg lrk foaj,a njg m;a fjkjd ú;rhs’ fï ksid yeÕSfuka fohla lr,d ú;rla ;j;a fohla n,dfmdfrd;a;= fjkak’
6. YÍrh .ek ie,ls,a,la ke;s tl’
msßñ wh ks;ru ;ukaf.a flkdj ,iaikg olskak wdihs’ ta ksid ks;ru m%sh ukdm úÈyg bkak n,kak’ fïflka lshkafka f,dl= úhoula lr,d ,iaik fjkak lshk tl fkfjhs, ks;ru kd, msßisÿj bkak tl jqk;a we;s’ ta jf.au álla yß ;ukaf.a YÍrfha yevh .ek ie,ls,af,ka bkak’ msßñ wh weiska olsk foag yeu fj,dfõu jeä ie,ls,a,la fok ksid Tn ,iaik .ek ie,ls,su;aj ysáfhd;a msßñ flkdf.a ys; Tn fj;u ;shd .kak mq¿jka’
7. B¾IHdj
fu;ek§ B¾IHdj lsõfõ f.dvla fj,djg ;ukaf.a flkd weiqre lrk wks;a .eyeKq wh .ek ´kEjg jvd B¾IHd lrk tlhs’ ta .eyeKq wh Tng jvd ,iaik jqkd lsh,d thd,d weiqre lrkak tmd lsh,d kS;s odk tl yßu fnd<| jevla’ Tng úYajdihla ;sfhkak wjYHhs ;ukaf.a msßñ flkd .ek’ wdY%h lrk yeu flfkla .eku weyqju ´kEu msßñ flfkl=g tmd fjkjd’
8. yeu fjf,au wefÕa t,af,kak hk tl’
fïl msßñ flkdf.ka flkdg fjkia, iuyre leu;shs ;udf.a wefÕau t,a,s,d bkak flfkl=g’ fldfydu jqk;a yeu fj,dfõu msßñ flkdj whs;s lr f.k bkakjd jf.a ±fkkak fok tl yß hkafka keye’ thdf.a yoj;a Èkd .kak W;aiy lrk tlhs ksjerÈ foa’
9. iudj b,a,,d j| jefgkak i,iajk tl’
iïnkaOhla ;sfhoa§ isÿ fjk jerÈ j,g Wjukdjg jvd ;Èka bkak tl ta ;rï .e<fmkafka kE’ m%Yakhla we;s jqkdu tal ´kEjg jvd ld,hla weo f.k hkak tmd’ úfYaIfhkau mqxÑ je/oaolg;a iudj b,a,kak j¢kak ´k jqkdu ´kEu msßñ flfklag tal tmd fjkjd’ tfyuhs lsh,d yeu foagu blaukg iudj fokak ´fka kE’ Thdu f;areï .kak wjYHhs je/oafoa m%udKh wkqj idOdrK ld,hla ;=,$ idOdrK b,a,Sula lrdu t,an f.k bkafka ke;sj iudj fokak’
10. lsisu fohla .ek woyila ke;s tl’
msßñ whg f.dvla tmd fjk fohla ;uhs Thdf.a leue;a; weyqju woyila ke;s tl’ fudkjo lkafka, fndkafka lsh,d weyqju zThd leu;s fohlaZ lshk tl ks;ru lshkak tmd’ ;uka leu;s foa wykafka ta foa ,nd fokak leu;s ksidfka’ fïl fyd|g u;l ;shd .kak wjYH ldrKhla’ Thdf.a leue;a; weyqju fudlla yß fohla f;dard f.k tal lshkak’ wdmyq Thd leu;s fohla lshk W;a;rh fokaku tmd’
fï jf.a fmdä jerÈ yß .iaid .;af;d;a Thdg ;sfhk iïnkaOh mj;ajd f.k hkak jf.au fyd| flfkla hd¿ fjkak wdju thd ;ukag ysñ lr .kak;a mq¿jka fõú’ u;l ;shd .kak iïnkaOhla mgka .kak tl fndfyda fj,djg msßñ flkdf.a Wjukdj u; isoaO jqkdg iïnkaOh mj;ajd f.k hkak jeäfhka n,mdkafka .eyeKq flkd lshk tl’
fï ,smsh hd¨jkag;a share lr,d thd,dg;a fï ±kqu fnod fokak’ ldg jqk;a fï foaj,a .ek ±kqula ;sfhk tl yßu m%fhdackj;a fõú’
