Ex had her 2nd baby, wants me back

cityboy989 · Oct 10, 2017

This is an ex from 2.5 YEARS ago. We have had close to 0 contact over these 2.5 years. She kicked me to the curb 2.5 years ago, ending the relationship.

She had a 6 year old when we were together (we were only together for 8 months.) I found out through Facebook that she had another baby several months ago from this lame provider dude she was with. (She's 29. Hasn't come close to hitting the wall yet. Still has a baby face.) I sincerely thought she was seeking a provider, so I dont know why they're not together now. Maybe she could only take a relationship for so long before she grew bored/tired of being with a guy she wasn't physically attracted to. Don't know. But they had a CHILD together several months ago. I can't believe shes trying to reingratiate me back into her life now, out of nowhere. Any advice and/or similar experiences?

Gan · Oct 10, 2017

What do you want with her? She ended the relationship and did not contact you for 2.5 years until now. You might have too much history to have her around as a plate. I'd say keep the no contact.

Glassguy · Oct 10, 2017

Ex: "Hey cityboy. How have you been?"
You: Sorry I dont recognize the number. Who is this?
Ex: Its me the ex. I was just thinking about you.
You: Damn girl. I thought I blocked your fvcking number a long time ago. Thanks for the heads up.

Block number.

Seriously......I would put her on a quick blast. She threw you away 2 yrs ago. Goes fvcking other dudes, pops another man's kid out (#2 illegitimate kid I assume) and thinks its ok to start hitting you up?

FVCK THAT.

Bible_Belt · Oct 10, 2017

they had a CHILD together several months ago.

She is still in the window for post-partum depression, which may be why she left the last baby daddy.

soulforge · Oct 10, 2017

Glassguy said:
Ex: "Hey cityboy. How have you been?"
You: Sorry I dont recognize the number. Who is this?
Ex: Its me the ex. I was just thinking about you.
You: Damn girl. I thought I blocked your fvcking number a long time ago. Thanks for the heads up.

Block number.

Seriously......I would put her on a quick blast. She threw you away 2 yrs ago. Goes fvcking other dudes, pops another man's kid out (#2 illegitimate kid I assume) and thinks its ok to start hitting you up?

FVCK THAT.

I agree with Glassguy.. She kicked you to the curb, then went off riding next man's C0ck..

She's popped out another baby, it didn't work out.. Now comes back trying to pull you back in..

More than likely she will dump you again, then go off and pop out baby number 3 with the next poor barstarrd..

Get rid of this fukin Hoe!!

sosousage · Oct 10, 2017

Glassguy said:
Ex: "Hey cityboy. How have you been?"
You: Sorry I dont recognize the number. Who is this?
Ex: Its me the ex. I was just thinking about you.
You: Damn girl. I thought I blocked your fvcking number a long time ago. Thanks for the heads up.

Block number.

Seriously......I would put her on a quick blast. She threw you away 2 yrs ago. Goes fvcking other dudes, pops another man's kid out (#2 illegitimate kid I assume) and thinks its ok to start hitting you up?

FVCK THAT.

yeah women feel no shame... but I would keep her as a plate (unless you have full schedule)

Alvafe · Oct 10, 2017

sosousage said:
yeah women feel no shame... but I would keep her as a plate (unless you have full schedule)

I serious doubt a woman like that should even receive a plate status, that is too much good for her lazy fat ass, too many single and childless woman around to waste time to even read what she send

soulforge · Oct 10, 2017

sosousage said:
yeah women feel no shame... but I would keep her as a plate (unless you have full schedule)

You do realise keeping an EX as a plate, who you have history with, or possible some feelings for, is not going to go as plan?

Usually these type of situations get all fuked up, and next thing you know, your back in that toxic cycle again.

Forget plate.. Don't even a knowledge her!

Mike32ct · Oct 10, 2017

Don’t walk, run. Nothing good can come from this.

Glassguy · Oct 10, 2017

sosousage said:
yeah women feel no shame... but I would keep her as a plate (unless you have full schedule)

Why? So you can knock her up and be tied to her for life?

logicallefty · Oct 10, 2017

Bible_Belt said:
they had a CHILD together several months ago.

She is still in the window for post-partum depression, which may be why she left the last baby daddy.

^This is how my daughter ended up with divorced parents right here. Exactly this .

GT40 · Oct 10, 2017

Pass. She’s low value.
After she dumped you she was getting railed by other dudes. You want this back? Not a chance man. Block her number now.

soulforge · Oct 11, 2017

GT40 said:
Pass. She’s low value.
After she dumped you she was getting railed by other dudes. You want this back? Not a chance man. Block her number now.

not only that.. She popped out another kid, then left him too..

This could be a regular pattern with this one.. HUGE red flags!

derby1 · Oct 11, 2017

This woman has a masterplan and you are part of it

Desdinova · Oct 11, 2017

cityboy989 said:
I found out through Facebook that she had another baby several months ago from this lame provider dude she was with. (She's 29. Hasn't come close to hitting the wall yet. Still has a baby face.) I sincerely thought she was seeking a provider, so I dont know why they're not together now.

I don't buy the "seeking a provider" crap. Most women don't intentionally look for men with money, they settle for men who are "good enough" when the men they want are too busy fvcking hot young 20 year olds to notice her aging ass. Perhaps the guy was one of those "good enough" men, or perhaps she actually wanted another baby and he was the convenient sperm donor at the time.

Regardless, who cares? She's not worthy of your attention.

dude99 · Oct 11, 2017

soulforge said:
not only that.. She popped out another kid, then left him too..

This could be a regular pattern with this one.. HUGE red flags!

She had the kid. Now dude is legally responsibile for the finances of the kid. She wont care. Her bills are getting paid.

OP do not add her on social media, do not make plans with this woman. Be polite if you run into her but always be too busy for her.

She sounds like she is 29 going on 14. She won't grow up because society rewards women like this.

cityboy989 · Oct 11, 2017

Desdinova said:
I don't buy the "seeking a provider" crap. Most women don't intentionally look for men with money, they settle for men who are "good enough" when the men they want are too busy fvcking hot young 20 year olds to notice her aging ass. Perhaps the guy was one of those "good enough" men, or perhaps she actually wanted another baby and he was the convenient sperm donor at the time.

Regardless, who cares? She's not worthy of your attention.

If that fool was good enough why did she toss him to the curb to?

I still can't believe she actually had the audacity to hit me up again to "see how I'm doing"

cityboy989 · Oct 11, 2017

dude99 said:
She had the kid. Now dude is legally responsibile for the finances of the kid. She wont care. Her bills are getting paid.

OP do not add her on social media, do not make plans with this woman. Be polite if you run into her but always be too busy for her.

She sounds like she is 29 going on 14. She won't grow up because society rewards women like this.

Haha, she sees her kids as welfare earners, ey?

cityboy989 · Oct 11, 2017

derby1 said:
This woman has a masterplan and you are part of it

Which is?

derby1 · Oct 12, 2017

she wants COMFORT.. There is a major red flag of 2 individual Children by 2 fathers most men in the UK will not date a woman like this there BAD NEWS but she will never see(admit) SHE IS THE PROBLEM.......2 Children from the same Dad over lets say 5+ years LTR wouldnt be so bad.... knows her ***** is now low value to any decent man so thinks OP is spineless and makes a great family man.....

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