My son is 24 years old and was diagnosed with Aspergers officially in 2011. I have since learned that a medical diagnoses is important to have on file for applications for college scholarships, and free support services that will become invaluable as you continue to support your daughter. My son didn't have any behavioral issues and I wanted to avoid treating him with any type of drug so I stayed away from a medical diagnosis because I didn't know what I didn't know. Now, I truly believe a medical diagnosis is necessary for a whole host of other types of support.

I did the same thing as you. I waited until I thought I needed it. But there are other services she may qualify for thru the county. (For free) And this will set her up for the future (SSI). A history of needs always makes it easier instead of just coming on board.

I agree with Janeen. Services are available for her with a medical diagnosis.

Outside behavioral and other therapy can help her catch up and cope, even if she does not have behavioral issues. If you let them know that you are interested if a cancellation comes up, you can possibly avoid the wait. We skipped a long wait this way. Sometimes school provides great services. In our experience, outside help did the most.

Yes, it can wait. You have tackled the hard part once the schools have recognized the disability. I'd get on a wait list and just do it when it's convenient. Eligibility in the school is good for 3 years and not all schools honor a medical diagnosis anyways.