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First Lady Michelle Obama still asks herself: ‘How do I want to impact the world?’

  • First Lady Michelle Obama arrives at a clothes store to...

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    First Lady Michelle Obama arrives at a clothes store to do shopping with her daughters Malia and Sasha on June 7, 2009 in Paris.

  • Michelle wore a black and white dress, covered by a...

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    Michelle wore a black and white dress, covered by a black cardigan, to meet the Queen...

  • First Lady Michelle Obama and daughters Malia (l.) and Sasha...

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    First Lady Michelle Obama and daughters Malia (l.) and Sasha (r.) make a surprise stop at Paris' most famous landmark - the Eiffel Tower - on Friday June 5, 2009.

  • The same day they posed with archibishop Jean-Pierre Grallet and...

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    The same day they posed with archibishop Jean-Pierre Grallet and Father Ekhert at the Cathedral of Starsbourg with other summit spouses.

  • The First Lady then joined her husband and the Mexican...

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    The First Lady then joined her husband and the Mexican Ambassador, Arturo Sarukhan, l., for a Cinco de Mayo celebration in the Grand Foyer of the White House.

  • Obama got particularly choked up when speaking about how she...

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    Obama got particularly choked up when speaking about how she never imagined she would be a role model for girls around the world. "Girls who possibly look at me and see something more for themselves, more than society expects of them. Girls who now think, maybe just maybe, anything is possible," she said.

  • Michelle Obama made her own rounds, including a meeting with...

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    Michelle Obama made her own rounds, including a meeting with Livia Klausova, wife of Czech President Vaclav Klaus...

  • Obama celebrated Cinco de Mayo a day early, attending an...

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    Obama celebrated Cinco de Mayo a day early, attending an Hispanic Heritage event at the Latin American Montessori Bilingual Public Charter School in Washington.

  • The First Lady showed off her arms again on Friday...

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    The First Lady showed off her arms again on Friday morning as she was leaving the opening ceremony for the NATO summit in Strasbourg, France. Michelle Obama shined in a bright pink number - which was more modest than her sleeveless dress Thursday night - after removing a matching cloak...

  • In her first trip to New York City since her...

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    In her first trip to New York City since her husband was elected president, First Lady Michelle Obama floored those gathered at the Time 100 Most Influential People Awards at the Time Warner Center with both her stunning floor-length navy blue gown from high-end French designer Azzedine Alaia and her touching keynote address Tuesday, May 5th. (Read more about her visit.)

  • Michelle Obama is known for being a hugger, but who...

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    Michelle Obama is known for being a hugger, but who knew she would break royal protocol and give the Queen a squeeze? Luckily, Her Majesty welcomed the warm gesture.But that didn't stop a frenzy in the tabloids over 'The Hug'RELATED: Michelle's Queen Elizabeth hug sets tongues wagging The Brits have been very kind to the First Lady since her arrival, the tabloids have even commended her "Jackie O." style. On Day 2, however, Michelle Obama may have gotten a little ahead of herself on the fashion front...

  • The First Lady is known for taking fashion risks with...

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    The First Lady is known for taking fashion risks with bold colors and big prints. But for a classic night in New York City, there?s only one option: the little black dress like the Azzedine Alaia that Michelle Obama chose for her date with the President last weekend. It?s eternally chic and universally flattering. Want your own LBD without spending a fortune? Click here to see styles YOU can afford.But black was an aberration of the summery palette Obama has been wearing recently...

  • Both Michelle and Barack studied protocol before their royal meeting.

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    Both Michelle and Barack studied protocol before their royal meeting.

  • The First Lady arrived at Stansted Airport in Essex, England...

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    The First Lady arrived at Stansted Airport in Essex, England in a yellow and black ensemble...

  • The night before she stepped out in an elegant black,...

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    The night before she stepped out in an elegant black, ruffled evening gown with a fitted, cropped black jacket...

  • U.S. First Lady Michelle Obama visits the Capitoline Museum in...

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    U.S. First Lady Michelle Obama visits the Capitoline Museum in Rome on July 8 with several First Ladies.

  • The First Lady took command of the tree-planting, and reportedly...

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    The First Lady took command of the tree-planting, and reportedly boasted that she had a bigger tree than her husband.

  • ... after wearing an elegant white and black coat to...

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    ... after wearing an elegant white and black coat to board Air Force One, which carried them across the Atlantic.

  • Talk about a power couple! Obama poses with Oprah Winfrey...

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    Talk about a power couple! Obama poses with Oprah Winfrey at the Time event.

  • Michelle Obama and her daughters, Malia, r., and Sasha, l.,...

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    Michelle Obama and her daughters, Malia, r., and Sasha, l., arrive in Moscow looking quite stylish after boarding Air Force One nearly 11 hours earlier, above r. From Russia with style: Bam's girls make fashionable arrival in Moscow

  • She's ready for her close-up! Michelle Obama has been thrust...

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    She's ready for her close-up! Michelle Obama has been thrust into the international spotlight on the first trip to Europe since Barack Obama was sworn in as President. Doubling for Jackie O., the First Lady, shown above outside 10 Downing, is making quite an impression overseas.

  • Michelle plays with a baby as she tours La General...

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    Michelle plays with a baby as she tours La General Hospital in Accra on July 11, 2009.

  • The First Lady delivered the commencement speech at the University...

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    The First Lady delivered the commencement speech at the University of California, Merced on May 16. Her commencement speech followed a fashionable week for Obama, who showed off some skin at a White House event...

  • Michelle Obama broke ground on the White House Kitchen Garden...

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    Michelle Obama broke ground on the White House Kitchen Garden on the South Lawn of the White House in March. Read more about the First Vegetable Garden.

  • After cutting a ribbon to open a new wing at...

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    After cutting a ribbon to open a new wing at the Metropolitan Museum of Art...

  • ... along with, from l., choreographer Debbie Alllen, actress Tracee...

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    ... along with, from l., choreographer Debbie Alllen, actress Tracee Ellis Ross, actress Phylicia Rashad, Google Vice-President Marissa Mayer, White House Social Secretary Desiree Rogers, Mrs. Obama, and singer Sheryl Crow.

  • ... and a visit to the Jewish Museum in Prague....

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    ... and a visit to the Jewish Museum in Prague. The First Lady's arrival in Europe monopolized headlines around the world, particularly her fashion face-off with the French First Lady.

  • Michelle waves as she leaves the famed site, after delighting...

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    Michelle waves as she leaves the famed site, after delighting her fellow tourists. She and the girls arrived in France to meet husband and father, President Barack Obama, on the tail end of an overseas trip.Read more about the First Lady's sightseeing in Paris.

  • In London, Michelle Obama met many of the other spouses...

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    In London, Michelle Obama met many of the other spouses of summit delegates, including the wife of the Indian Prime Minister, Gursharan Kaur.

  • The First Lady hit Lincoln Center to celebrate the American...

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    The First Lady hit Lincoln Center to celebrate the American Ballet Theatre's Opening Night Gala. Looking stunning in a cocktail dress, by designer Azzedine Alaia, Obama snuck into the Metropolitan Opera House through an underground entrance, skipping the glitzy red carpet. Her trip to New York Monday was after a trip to the west coast over the weekend...

  • Everyone wants a piece of her! Elizabeth Hasselbeck and Barbara...

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    Everyone wants a piece of her! Elizabeth Hasselbeck and Barbara Walters reach down to greet the First Lady at the Gala at Lincoln Center.

  • The First Lady got a warm welcome at the Lamb...

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    The First Lady got a warm welcome at the Lamb Public Charter School...

  • On a July 7 visit to the Sisters of Mercy...

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    On a July 7 visit to the Sisters of Mercy St. Dimitry Nursing College in Moscow, First Lady Michelle Obama shows off a traditional Russia matreshka nesting doll while standing with an elderly nurse.

  • ... which she later shed to show off those signature...

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    ... which she later shed to show off those signature arms at the side of husband and U.S. President Barack Obama.

  • Now that's how to dress in New York during a...

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    Now that's how to dress in New York during a recession. For her first visit here as First Lady, Michelle Obama recycled a wardrobe staple. She shopped her closet and picked a Tracy Feith dress that she's worn before for a meet-and-greet at the U.S. mission to the UN Tuesday, May 5th.

  • The Obamas, escorted by the Head of the Household David...

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    The Obamas, escorted by the Head of the Household David Walker, arrived at Buckingham Palace on Wednesday afternoon for a reception with the Queen.

  • Obama also sat down with German Chancellor Angela Merkel's husband,...

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    Obama also sat down with German Chancellor Angela Merkel's husband, Joachim Sauer, in the town hall of Baden-Baden, Germany.

  • The President and his wife Michelle made a grand entrance...

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    The President and his wife Michelle made a grand entrance to greet the crowd prior to his speech in front of the castle in Prague, Czech Republic. Seen in background is the St. Nicholas Church. While her husband met with other heads of states...

  • Obama harvested vegetables from the White House garden with fifth...

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    Obama harvested vegetables from the White House garden with fifth graders from Bancroft Elementary School in mid-June.

  • ... but had removed the cardigan later in the evening,...

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    ... but had removed the cardigan later in the evening, as she arrived at 10 Downing St. for dinner.

  • First lady Michelle Obama filled the White House with a...

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    First lady Michelle Obama filled the White House with a slew of star females while hosting a series of events in celebration of Women's History Month. Actresses Kerry Washington, above l., and Sarah Jones, r., were among the guests invited to the Diplomatic Room of the White House Thursday...

  • ... and greeted the pint-size performers.

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    ... and greeted the pint-size performers.

  • On June 6, the President and First Lady arrived in...

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    On June 6, the President and First Lady arrived in Caen, France, ahead of his meeting with French President Nicholas Sarkozy and ceremonies commemorating the 65th anniversary of the Allied landings in Normany on D-Day. Read more about Obama's D-Day speech.

  • President Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle Obama meet with...

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    President Barack Obama and First Lady Michelle Obama meet with Pope Benedict XVI on July 10 at the Vatican.

  • During the Obama's first trip to sub-Saharan Africa since becoming...

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    During the Obama's first trip to sub-Saharan Africa since becoming the first family, Michelle Obama tours the La General Hospital in Accra, Ghana on July 11, 2009.

  • Earlier in the day, Obama joined California First Lady Maria...

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    Earlier in the day, Obama joined California First Lady Maria Shriver, not shown, to help build a play ground at the Bret Harte Elementary School in San Francisco, Calif.

  • First Lady Michelle Obama chats with the students from students...

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    First Lady Michelle Obama chats with the students from students from Washington's Bancroft Elementary School, who helped prepare the garden for planting.

  • The First Lady had some help keeping her Tracy Feith...

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    The First Lady had some help keeping her Tracy Feith dress dry in Tuesday's rainy weather as she exited the Mission.

  • The Obamas departed the White House in Washington on Tuesday...

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    The Obamas departed the White House in Washington on Tuesday morning for their eight-day, five-country trip to Britain, France, Germany, the Czech Republic and Turkey.

  • As the visit to Ghana draws to a close, the...

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    As the visit to Ghana draws to a close, the First Lady hugs an unidentified woman, as daughter Malia watches, at a departure ceremony at Kotoka International Airport in Accra, Ghana on Saturday, July 11, 2009.

  • ... before they headed to the Rohan Palace for lunch...

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    ... before they headed to the Rohan Palace for lunch while their husbands held bilateral talks. RELATED: Just call stylish Michelle Obama and Carla Bruni the First Ladies who lunch

  • Michelle Obama made a public show of support for the...

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    Michelle Obama made a public show of support for the arts in New York on Monday - and she brought glamour back. Above, Mayor Bloomberg chats it up with Michelle Obama as Sen. Kirsten Gillibrand looks on at Metropolitan Museum. The First Lady painted the town purple in her bright ensemble...

  • Former NASA Astronaut Mae C. Jemison, r., the first African...

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    Former NASA Astronaut Mae C. Jemison, r., the first African American in space, smiles as she receives a hug from the First Lady.

  • The pair shared a laugh with German Chancellor Angela Merkel...

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    The pair shared a laugh with German Chancellor Angela Merkel at the evening summit event.

  • Michelle meets with singer Sheryl Crow, c., and actress Fran...

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    Michelle meets with singer Sheryl Crow, c., and actress Fran Drescher, r., during the casual greeting in the Diplomatic room.

  • While President Obama attended a G8 summit in L'Aquila aimed...

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    While President Obama attended a G8 summit in L'Aquila aimed at tackling the world economic crisis, global warming and Iran, Michelle took daughters Malia (R) and Sacha (front) on a visit to the Colosseum in Rome on July 8.

  • Cheers! The 26 elementary school students enjoyed a picnic on...

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    Cheers! The 26 elementary school students enjoyed a picnic on the lawn as well. The students are helping with the garden and will return to enjoy a meal as the produce grows...

  • Trudi Cogdell, c., is a patient with terminal cancer at...

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    Trudi Cogdell, c., is a patient with terminal cancer at Maggie's Cancer Caring Center at Charing Cross Hospital in West London. Trudi and her children Maysie ,8, l., and Presley, 5, r., who was named after Elvis, were very happy to meet the First Lady, who signed the card on the left while the card at right is signed by the Prime Minister's wife Sarah.

  • Another patient at the cancer center, Sheryne Skiaaer, had the...

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    Another patient at the cancer center, Sheryne Skiaaer, had the First Lady autograph her family photograph, which she said she'll have it framed.

  • ... a pair of earrings. Her latest fashion risk exemplifies...

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    ... a pair of earrings. Her latest fashion risk exemplifies what Vogue editor Anna Wintour said Monday night at an interview at the 92Y. "She isn't, like some people in Washington, frightened of it," Wintour told John Tisch at the event. "She believes, as we do at Vogue, that to be an independent, working woman doesn't mean that you have to walk around with a brown paper bag on." You certainly won't see a paper bag on this fashionista...

  • Michelle Obama and Carla Bruni Sakozy, with President Obama bringing...

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    Michelle Obama and Carla Bruni Sakozy, with President Obama bringing up the rear. The Obamas and the Sarkozys looked like old friends on what is the U.S. First Couple's second major visit to France, after their European trip in early April. Click here to see a breakdown of the First Lady Fashion Battle.

  • Obama braved chilly day in purple Isaac Mizrahi wool and...

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    Obama braved chilly day in purple Isaac Mizrahi wool and silk sheath and matching jacket.

  • The fashionable first ladies greeter well-wishers at the opening ceremony...

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    The fashionable first ladies greeter well-wishers at the opening ceremony...

  • Michelle Obama wore a bright yellow dress to the celebration....

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    Michelle Obama wore a bright yellow dress to the celebration. The First Lady's fashion choices continue to be in the headlines, most recently due to some designer sneakers.

  • ... which was very a similar cut as the gray...

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    ... which was very a similar cut as the gray coat Carla Bruni-Sarkozy, wife of French President Nicolas Sarkozy, wore at the ceremony at the Palais Rohan in Strasbourg, France.

  • Swapping her high-priced sneakers for a pair of Puma's, the...

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    Swapping her high-priced sneakers for a pair of Puma's, the First Lady looked casually chic in a pair of cropped pants and a print top.

  • President Barack Obama and first lady Michelle Obama greet China's...

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    President Barack Obama and first lady Michelle Obama greet China's President Hu Jintao as they arrive for a state dinner at the White House on Wednesday, Jan. 19, 2011. Take a look back at Michelle Obama from President Obama's campaign and through his first term.

  • First Lady Michelle Obama and French First Lady Carla Bruni-Sarkozy...

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    First Lady Michelle Obama and French First Lady Carla Bruni-Sarkozy were a fashion power duo as they walked together through the streets of Strasbourg, France waving to crowds as they visited Rohan palace during the NATO summit ...

  • Obama wore a bright yellow top, layered over a floral...

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    Obama wore a bright yellow top, layered over a floral shirt on a school visit last week, where she spoke on the importance of healthy eating.

  • The First Lady doesn't mind getting her hands dirty for...

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    The First Lady doesn't mind getting her hands dirty for a good cause. Michelle Obama has shown off her green thumb since her arrival in the White House...

  • Who's ready to polka? Earlier Tuesday, the First lady pulled...

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    Who's ready to polka? Earlier Tuesday, the First lady pulled out all the fashion spots, er stops, when she wore a playful blue dress to speak to third grade students at a school in southeast Washington. The dress was designed by French design house Lanvin, the line which also produced Obama's $540 sneakers.

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    First lady Michelle Obama speaks at the 2009 National Conference on Volunteering and Service on Monday, June 22, 2009, in San Francisco. Obama kicked off President Barack Obama's United We Serve campaign urging people to help the nation's economic recovery through volunteering and public service.

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Ignore the doubters and aim high, First Lady Michelle Obama counsels teenage girls.

“When it was time for me to apply to colleges there were some counselors who said, ‘Maybe, with Princeton, you’re reaching a little high,'” she told Seventeen. “And I thought, ‘You really don’t think I can do it?’ But here’s what I did: I decided to ignore the doubters. I plunged ahead and I got in. I went on to Harvard Law School and every step of the way I used those doubting voices as motivation.”

The first lady and two winners of the Better Make Room essay contest grace one of the covers of the magazine. The special flip cover issue features singer Meghan Trainor on the other May cover. It goes on sale April 19.

MICHELLE OBAMA TO GIVE CITY COLLEGE COMMENCEMENT ADDRESS

The Better Make Room initiative motivates high school students to “get a better education, have a better career, imagine a better future and live a better life.”

Seventeen is among the sponsors of this initiative and the magazine invited readers to write essays about how they’re trying to secure spots at their dream schools.

The winners, Gemma Busoni and Zaniya Lewis, were invited to the White House.

There, they were treated to advice from the First Lady, the only one who earned diplomas from two Ivy League universities.

Not every high school has a definitive blueprint for life. And that’s just fine, she told the girls.

First Lady Michelle Obama is featured in the May issue of Seventeen. It is a special issue featuring Meghan Trainor on one cover and First Lady Michelle Obama and the two winners of the Seventeen Better Make Room essay contest on the other.
First Lady Michelle Obama is featured in the May issue of Seventeen. It is a special issue featuring Meghan Trainor on one cover and First Lady Michelle Obama and the two winners of the Seventeen Better Make Room essay contest on the other.

“I always tell people, the question of what you want to be when you grow up is one that you will eternally be answering.” Obama said. “I’m still asking myself that question! What am I going to do when I leave here? How do I want to impact the world? I’ve gotten used to the fact that I don’t have to know. I’m always going to be discovering new parts of myself, and you’ll find that you will be too.”

Obama, who is mom to an incoming freshman, older daughter, Malia, clearly remembers how she felt at 17.

And at no point did she daydream about someday becoming the First Lady of the United States or that a female President is a very much a possibility.

“When I was growing up, the notion that we would have an African-American president, the possibility that we would have a woman president, that wasn’t even on the horizon,” she said. “I didn’t believe it until we walked into the White House!”

jcutler@nydailynews.com